Apr 17, 2015, 10:56 AM
I love you." Those three words carry so much weight, they can literally make or break a relationship — especially if they're said too early or late. In love, timing can be everything, and nowhere is that more apparent than when it's first expressed.
So what does it mean when someone you're gaga over utters that phrase too early in your relationship? It could be a major red flag???? Or it could just mean he's caught up in the moment????
Saying "I love you" is a hard thing to do. You might be worried if you are really expressing your truly feelings or if you are being pressured into it. Everyone has their own time when they think that it is appropriate to say I love you. There is no right or wrong time. However, it is hurtful when an individual makes himself vulnerable and says, I love you, and his words are not returned. Sometimes it may be a simple act of courtesy to return the sentiment. On the other hand you may be setting him up for false expectations about the potential for a relationship.
"I never really knew you,
you were just another friend. But when I got to know you I let my heart unbend."
"There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life." ― John Lennon
Many people, myself included, have thought about saying “I love you” just because we think that’s part of the expected timeline of the relationship. Or perhaps we want to believe it, and we think that saying it—and hearing it back—will help the relationship mature. After all, if we were both thinking it, then perhaps the other will say it back as soon as you do. There are many factors that go into when it is the right time to say “I love you,” not to mention the embarrassing possibility of saying it and then not hearing it back. But in reality, it should be much simpler than that.
Saying I LOVE YOU.....I'm telling the said person.....that he is the most important person in my life and want him/them to be part of it.
There's a lot of meaning saying "I LOVE YOU" its depend who you want to say it. To your parents, siblings, relatives, friends, best friends, boyfriends/girlfriends, husband/wife, kids........everybody have a right to say it!!! But please mean it.
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