Oh wow. I mean the whole thing is about getting an unbalanced position. Beyond that is theory. No way to make it easy, sorry. You're going to hate me, but do some ChessMentor and see if learning principles doesn't help.
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/chess-mentor/free-chess-mentor-courses-for-all-levels
Could anyone tell me what to look for when playin Sicilian as black and what not to do.