Man .. You seem to be aggrassive player in attack .. My advise for you learn london system You ewill like it :) But about my self ware has alot of tempo moves so your opponent can easily get agreat advantage in the game !
WARE, Meadow Hay opening

Bresando, agreed. I agree that Black can dictate with his first move some of the center. After that... :-)
And isn't that an example of how black decides the central formation? He decides whether to play d5 or e5 (or c5 or f5 or...) and white reacts accordingly. Of course white will fight back and limit black expansion, i'm not saying that white will let black go away with an enormous space advantage uncontested. but still black can play the biggest role in giving shape to the centre. which doesn't mean that white is worse, just that white must be an extremely flexible and strategically mature player,