Noob, gosu, pro-gamer are benchmark terms that we use in video games. The evaluation is done by the technical level (not really by a display of level) example in Warcraft 3 a level 8 to beat Grubby (pro-gamer) but "we know" that it is a gosu by technical level that we notice in particular in his strength in micro.
In chess it would be + 2000 without it being by an artificial progression. Often we can't beat an AI at 2000 in many programs because we don't have the technical level to do so, so we conclude that from 2000 we are gosu (but obviously if we use anti-computer techniques, make take backs, don't play in the same time, it doesn't mean much to beat an AI 2000 ).
What's a gosu? I do have to agree with what you say about confidence.. or lack of it.. making so much different and how well you perform. Consistent losing doesn't exactly enhance my confidence, I find.