@Philidor_Legacy I took a look at Mary Kuhner's blog and it is excellent. In some ways, her annotated games are more relevant to me than super GM games. Very honest and critical analysis of her triumphs and failures. If anyone wants great examples of how to analyze your games, see her blog. (@mkkuhner)
In one of her annotated losses, she notes, "I now change the pawn structure to one which turns out not to work. During this game I had an insight about what I would need to become an NM: I can't be choosing pawn structures by guesswork, familiarity, or fondness, but need the tools to make an objective choice. It's a concrete goal for study, anyway." Wow! thumbs up on learning from a loss.
@Uncle_Bent:- Chess databases and chess books are perfectly ok.