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Just yesterday, or the day before yesterday, I made the 1112 post. Now look where we are now!
I can't find the time-out rules. I also think we should modify them slightly in the case that someone will be going on "vacation." I personally think that, when they think they're going to leave soon after they make a move, they say "I'm going on vacation for x days." Then the game just doesn't happen for x days. So if the other player doesn't make a move in x days, no matter how long x is, they don't get a warning, and it's the same with the other player. But the clock restarts at the end of vacation time. So if the other player doesn't move until the end of vacation time, and then three more days pass, then he/she get a time warning.I also think that we should put a limit on vacation time, maybe a fortnight, total, per game?

Speaking of which, next week I'll kind of be on vacation. I might be able to play games, but won't be on nearly as much. I'll probably be able to play at least one or two moves for most of my games.

I vote for no communication.
and anyway i think that (if the players don't cheat) there should be a third option where the only communication allowed is on the thread, so that only really obvious things (or things that the players don't care to tell the opponents) can be said

No messaging?
That's my worst nightmare!
Imagine, bughouse game.
Hmmm... capture knight... or bishop?
Guy wants to say: KNIGHT MATES!!!
But no messaging. Then the other guy captures the bishop.
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