What I meant to say was, if you were in theoof11’s shoes, would you like it if someone pointed out your faults the way you did to theoof11’s?
Again, you’re not wrong…just have some empathy. We don’t know what @theoof11 could be going through right now.
As a simple rule of life, if you are given a choice between being right and being kind, choose kind. At 87, you realize our lives on this Earth are too short to squander.
My first IM coach opened my eyes. He was very honest and frank about my chess abilities. IT was exactly what i needed to hear. Did i always like what he had to tell me? No, but it was what i needed to hear. Part of how i weed out chess students that i know are going to be a waste of time, is to test them to see how sensitive they are. Some are sensitive for varying reasons, which is understandable. Some are sensitive simply because they have been told all their life about how special they are. How wonderful they are. And what a winner they are!
So when the real world comes knocking they dont know how to deal with it.
Congratulations on living 87 years. I am 58. I just do not have the time, patience, or energy for the easily offended.
As far as being in theoof11's shoes? What did Einstein say about doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result? He ask posted about how to improve, and has not followed any of t he advice.
What I meant to say was, if you were in theoof11’s shoes, would you like it if someone pointed out your faults the way you did to theoof11’s?
Again, you’re not wrong…just have some empathy. We don’t know what @theoof11 could be going through right now.
As a simple rule of life, if you are given a choice between being right and being kind, choose kind. At 87, you realize our lives on this Earth are too short to squander.