Abandon instead of resign?

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BikesAreSoMuchFun

Roughly 20% of the time that I win recently, my opponent simply abandons the game instead of resigning. So I have to wait for the clock to wind down and eventually end the game. I tell myself to enjoy my victory lap, but I can help but think it seems like poor sportsmanship. Is there a good, understandable reason why folks do this? 

BlueScreenRevenge

Once in a while there will a valid reason, some sort of emergency so urgent that they don't even have time to click the resign button. But the overwhelming majority of the time it is just poor sportsmanship. You can report them: https://support.chess.com/article/675-what-is-stalling

SoupSailor
Report them for stalling and block them
SoupSailor
It seems that you might be at fault yourself though. At your level it is rare for players to stall like that. Chess.com matches unsportsmanlike players with each other. Try aborting less games so you get matched with players like these less often.
BikesAreSoMuchFun

Maybe I'm doing something else that folks don't like, but I never abandon games (at least not after making a first move).

SoupSailor

avoid aborting games too because the chess.com algorithm doesn't like that either.

LengendaryChessFighter
SoupSailor72 wrote:

avoid aborting games too because the chess.com algorithm doesn't like that either.

that is true 

LengendaryChessFighter

on lichess there is a warnning that if you abort too many games you will get banned

Laskersnephew

It is poor sportsmanship, but there's no point complaining about it in the forums. We can do nothing for you. Report people who do that, and then block them so you will never get paired with them again