@paul211:
a few thoughts -
- thanks for your reply.
- being a manager at a plant is very different being an owner of a website. big companies often hire people to sit around and waste time on silly projects. they have committees to oversee other oversight committees. they have meetings to plan the next meeting. they have people who create paperwork documentation of how well they are documenting everything on paper and then put those into storage where they pay someone to audit the paperwork that nobody will ever see. small companies can't afford any of that. i sense that is where you were coming from: being a manager at a large non-consumer, non-web company vs. being an owner of a small, consumer-oriented website.
- i was never offended by the content of your suggestions, just the tone, relentlessness, and attitude. i am always open to learning new things. but just because i don't agree doesn't mean i don't think about it and decide differently from you. that doesn't mean i'm stubborn or closed-minded. it might just mean i am right (or think i am).
- i'm not a believer in multiple personalities where you treat people one way in public and another way in private. i'm the same dude to everyone. i'm polite and sociable, but i'm not a pushover. i gave you several subtle hints that you were offending me, and you didn't seem to hear them. i'm not embarrassed by my strong reaction, nor do i think that needs to be private, since you were happy to publicly bash on me and others. people on this site know i'm a real guy. i'm not some fake persona that i created that only says nice things and yes yes yes to everyone. i'm alive and engaged in the community as a member and an owner. i play games. i chat. i have opinions. i'm friendly. and i also defend myself and my ideas when attacked.
- we're from different worlds: culturally, linguisitcally, professionally, personaly, generationally... i don't expect us to agree on everything or fit like peas in a pod. but i do think we can be respectful and civil to each other. i'm committed to doing that, though i won't stand to be publicly battered.
i hope we can move forward on a more positive note.
erik
i don't know if it is made impossible im chess.com already, butit can give you the classic chess starting position. can you remove this?