How to get lots of friends on chess.com?

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Diakonia wrote:
TheGoverner wrote:

The title says it all! Is there any way to get a lot of friends on chess.com really fast?

1.  These arent "friends"

2. They are people you dont know.

Your not going to get to know them with that attitude now are you!

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Carla-Magnusson wrote:
Diakonia wrote:
TheGoverner wrote:

The title says it all! Is there any way to get a lot of friends on chess.com really fast?

1.  These arent "friends"

2. They are people you dont know.

Your not going to get to know them with that attitude now are you!

I have 3 friends on my friends list, because they actually are friends.  I have played some very nice people here, but they arent "friends" and addinig names to my friends list isnt a priority.  I have done it in the past and not once have any of those people chatted, asked advice, offered to play/study, ask for or offer help with something, send a message say how ya doing?  

This isnt facebook...

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Diakonia wrote:
Carla-Magnusson wrote:
Diakonia wrote:
TheGoverner wrote:

The title says it all! Is there any way to get a lot of friends on chess.com really fast?

1.  These arent "friends"

2. They are people you dont know.

Your not going to get to know them with that attitude now are you!

I have 3 friends on my friends list, because they actually are friends.  I have played some very nice people here, but they arent "friends" and addinig names to my friends list isnt a priority.  I have done it in the past and not once have any of those people chatted, asked advice, offered to play/study, ask for or offer help with something, send a message say how ya doing?  

This isnt facebook...

You Sad Little Man, you have the opportunity to get involved with the chess. com community and what do you do, you squander it.

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Carla-Magnusson wrote:
Diakonia wrote:
Carla-Magnusson wrote:
Diakonia wrote:
TheGoverner wrote:

The title says it all! Is there any way to get a lot of friends on chess.com really fast?

1.  These arent "friends"

2. They are people you dont know.

Your not going to get to know them with that attitude now are you!

I have 3 friends on my friends list, because they actually are friends.  I have played some very nice people here, but they arent "friends" and addinig names to my friends list isnt a priority.  I have done it in the past and not once have any of those people chatted, asked advice, offered to play/study, ask for or offer help with something, send a message say how ya doing?  

This isnt facebook...

You Sad Little Man, you have the opportunity to get involved with the chess. com community and what do you do, you squander it.

I get involved when asked or when needed.

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like so

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Carla-Magnusson a écrit :

To be truly validated on these forums, first you need an enemy to argue with, otherwise you will remain a lightweight.

+1000

with lotta enemies, you'll be a legend too.

IF ....... 

Not so easy, to have thinking, to write it, to be attacked on the way you write, then on the matter you discribe, then on your opinion, to avoid religious political topics etc ..;  to be muted, blocked, banned, to stand enemies and counterattack without naming them, nor shaming them, to create your personal black list (to avoid to see hideous pic' on the morning on your baby, the thread you're the Op) , stand trolls and humorists de pacotille, obssessed, maniacs, crazy maverick horses and ...

keep smiling LaughingLaughingLaughing

You'll be a Legend too, my son       ( cf. KIPLING  IF poem)                            just writing.

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TheGoverner wrote:

The title says it all! Is there any way to get a lot of friends on chess.com really fast?

Send friend request and accept friend requests

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Honestly, I recieve atleast 1 friend request per day since I am a top blogger..

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yes but suppose only friends and no enemies. not really tremendous life.

How can you beat friends you play with ?   bad, villain !

Old proverb western wisdom : 

"take care of my enemies, i deal with my friends" to avoid traitors.

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BlueEyedLady wrote:

The amount of friends is not what is important it is how genuine the friends are that a person has which is most desired.

+1

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whenthe_nightcomes wrote:
BlueEyedLady wrote:

The amount of friends is not what is important it is how genuine the friends are that a person has which is most desired.

+1

+2

Avatar of bunicula

is this going to be a list of natural numbers?

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not that listing them won't get u more friends or anything

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bunicula wrote:

is this going to be a list of natural numbers?

+

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BlargDragon a écrit :
bunicula wrote:

is this going to be a list of natural numbers?

+

+ℕ+1

nb : it is mathematical non sense, but does the thread make sense ? 

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FRENCHBASHER wrote:

yes but suppose only friends and no enemies. not really tremendous life.

How can you beat friends you play with ?   bad, villain !

Old proverb western wisdom : 

"take care of my enemies, i deal with my friends" to avoid traitors.

Another adage, "keep your friends close, but your enemies closer."

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by the way why do you want to make friends?

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+1000 TheChair

nice pic' ,   really accord parfait : name and pic', bravo !!!!

For me it is difficult to put my face pic' on .... profile, picasso cow in Guernica painting succedeed.

one thing is to have friends, another is to keep them, far from wife's end and close to heart.

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Send friend requests and you'll have more friends. What a nonsense question!

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Harish73 a écrit :

by the way why do you want to make friends?

to get enemies sooner or later, much fun with enemies, battle, etc ...