Im being targetetd... - Chess Forums - Page 2

sndeww

Jan 14, 2021

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#21

Oh no! He asked my gender and if I am single. The nerve of these people! I am much offended!

Moonwarrior_1

Jan 14, 2021

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#22

Batman2508 wrote:

Im not allowed to give names but...

There is this user that joined 6 hours ago, then says "hi" how are you doing, i said good and then this guy tells me ARE U SINGLE like BRUH, i said no comment, then he said do you know any friends that are single, now im getting bad vibes, I could block chat but I wanted to know more, then I clarified by saying " So your saying if my friends are single I should ask them to date you"

THIS DUDE SAYS YES.

So basically If I said im single he would ask me if i wanted to date him.

(Again NO comment if im single or not)

Is online dating reportable on chess.com?

I’ve had the same thing happen, just like you I was curious so I didn’t block them got some bad vibes tho. After the first convo after I stonewalled them they went away a week later they were closed not sure if it’s reportable though.

NathanDrake12345

Jan 14, 2021

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#23

Batman2508 wrote:

NathanDrake12345 wrote:

Batman2508 wrote:

Im not allowed to give names but...

There is this user that joined 6 hours ago, then says "hi" how are you doing, i said good and then this guy tells me ARE U SINGLE like BRUH, i said no comment, then he said do you know any friends that are single, now im getting bad vibes, I could block chat but I wanted to know more, then I clarified by saying " So your saying if my friends are single I should ask them to date you"

THIS DUDE SAYS YES.

So basically If I said im single he would ask me if i wanted to date him.

(Again NO comment if im single or not)

Is online dating reportable on chess.com?

That is a very funny and normal joke to do with guy to guy. It is abnormal to not make that kind of humour.

With the understanding, he's your friend. If you don't open the hand of invitation to someone, potentially you are at fault. However, if someone is harassing, impersonating, or defaming a female; I am all for taking action.

Always best to speak to your Lawyer about it! Talk to your parents if you are not sure, with subjects of the girls you can start by telling your Mom, then tell your Dad after.

he isn't my friend he joined 6 hours ago and then started chatting with me, maybe with the intetion of getting my info

If it were to go to court, you would lose the case is all I'll say. Alienation is very serious, and you have to go through life assuming everybody is your friend.

EamonB1

Jan 14, 2021

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#24

Batman2508 wrote:

Im not allowed to give names but...

There is this user that joined 6 hours ago, then says "hi" how are you doing, i said good and then this guy tells me ARE U SINGLE like BRUH, i said no comment, then he said do you know any friends that are single, now im getting bad vibes, I could block chat but I wanted to know more, then I clarified by saying " So your saying if my friends are single I should ask them to date you"

THIS DUDE SAYS YES.

So basically If I said im single he would ask me if i wanted to date him.

(Again NO comment if im single or not)

Is online dating reportable on chess.com?

How are you being targeted? This just sounds like a lonely guy who's hiding it by being a moron.

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#25

kittycat35 wrote:

Just because you don't know who this person is doesn't mean he or she is a girl.

if he was a girl get it would get even worse.... right?

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#26

NathanDrake12345 wrote:

Batman2508 wrote:

NathanDrake12345 wrote:

Batman2508 wrote:

Im not allowed to give names but...

There is this user that joined 6 hours ago, then says "hi" how are you doing, i said good and then this guy tells me ARE U SINGLE like BRUH, i said no comment, then he said do you know any friends that are single, now im getting bad vibes, I could block chat but I wanted to know more, then I clarified by saying " So your saying if my friends are single I should ask them to date you"

THIS DUDE SAYS YES.

So basically If I said im single he would ask me if i wanted to date him.

(Again NO comment if im single or not)

Is online dating reportable on chess.com?

That is a very funny and normal joke to do with guy to guy. It is abnormal to not make that kind of humour.

With the understanding, he's your friend. If you don't open the hand of invitation to someone, potentially you are at fault. However, if someone is harassing, impersonating, or defaming a female; I am all for taking action.

Always best to speak to your Lawyer about it! Talk to your parents if you are not sure, with subjects of the girls you can start by telling your Mom, then tell your Dad after.

he isn't my friend he joined 6 hours ago and then started chatting with me, maybe with the intetion of getting my info

If it were to go to court, you would lose the case is all I'll say. Alienation is very serious, and you have to go through life assuming everybody is your friend.

I wouldn't take that in court....

snoozyman

Jan 14, 2021

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#27

Just block them and move on....

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#28

kittycat35 wrote:

So now you're saying girls are worse than boys?

no not all, since you dont know the "word" that realtes to something like that you wouldn't understand.

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#29

kittycat35 wrote:

So now you're saying girls are worse than boys?

why would i say that?

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#30

yes it excatly would, but that doesnt mean boys are better than girls.

drmrboss

Jan 14, 2021

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#31

Look like you are a child.

Next time you can say " I am a child "when someone ask you whether single.

But ,seriously, if you think a man asking to date a woman is a criminal offence, then 90% of men would be in jail.

In other word, if no man start asking to date, woman has to ask to date. Or else, there will be human race extinction.

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#32

drmrboss wrote:

Look like you are a child.

Next time you can say " I am a child "when someone ask you whether single.

But ,seriously, if you think a man asking to date a woman is a criminal offence, then 90% of men would be in jail.

In other word, if no man start asking to date, woman has to ask to date. Or else, there will be human race extinction.

I dont belive that, we never even talked, he knows nothing about that im a girl and then.. he didn't know me.

hvenki

Jan 14, 2021

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#33

Don't have an anime pfp then

jacob12311224

Jan 14, 2021

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#34

internet safety

E1NS0F

Jan 14, 2021

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#35

If you think that someone misbehaved, you can contact the support. If someone is writing you messages that you don't like, you should close the chat and then contact the support.

Or you can just don't let small things influence you, gain control over your thoughts and emotions and not let external event / other people / the weather / ... influence you, and by doing so live a life full of joy and amazing experiences, since don't wasting time on things that are not important will result in you having a lot more time available

nTzT

Jan 14, 2021

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#36

Everyone gets spam, no need to make fuss, block report and move on.

Pat_Zurr

Jan 14, 2021

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#37

You need to be careful how much info you give about yourself, especially if you are a young person. Ask yourself if I wasn't online or on this chess site, would I be willing to go up to a complete stranger and share the same info I share with the public here on chess.com? There is a such thing as "too much information" TMI. Please report harassment to the chess.com moderators and block people as necessary. If it gets really creepy, make sure you elevate it your parents if you are a minor or even the authorities such as the police.

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#38

hvenki wrote:

Don't have an anime pfp then

how does that realate?

hvenki

Jan 14, 2021

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#39

Batman2508 wrote:

hvenki wrote:

Don't have an anime pfp then

how does that realate?

Usually people with anime pfp's are girls, correct me if i'm wrong, but your a boy? If you wanna stop being targeted dont have an anime pfp.

Batman2508

Jan 14, 2021

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#40

hvenki wrote:

Batman2508 wrote:

hvenki wrote:

Don't have an anime pfp then

how does that realate?

Usually people with anime pfp's are girls, correct me if i'm wrong, but your a boy? If you wanna stop being targeted dont have an anime pfp.

ok