Good points. I'm startng to find that out about a lot of women at this site now too. Some complain about men bothering them while flirting with almost any guy who comes along.
damn, this never happens to me.
Then you're not showing enough cleavage ;))
What's your game Afaf? You mention sex obliquely and ask whether your missing avatar is appropriate. If you simply wanted the situation remedied, why not e-mail chess.com? You're obviously a pretty woman, if the current avatar is really your picture. Do you just need validation? It's easy enough to get that from men on the internet. According to your profile, you're almost 30 years old. Maybe you should find a more mature way of expressing your sexuality and stop posting things like a snickering teenager.
lol. I'd prefer if nobody else would get into this conversation with myself and Mr. Electricpawn.
From your random attack, Mr Electricpawn, it can be well assumed that you don't know me at all. Your decision to pick up on my age - as if it were a negative thing to be 28...and to attack me for asking about my avatar's disappearance are actually more to do with you and your perception of reality. One thing you really fail to realize is...I'm at a chess site - I study openings and slog through game after game with random married men who are often balding, and or old enough to call grandpa. There is nobody hot around to validate me. So chill out. Sorry about whatever "hot" girls have flipped their hair at you in disinterest. It's nothing to do with me. Smile.
How typical of your mind set. I point out the immature nature of your post, so hot women must have "flipped their hair at me in disinterest." Every adult has had both negative and positive experiences with members of the opposite sex.But this is a chess site, and I choose not to get into personal affairs. And this is part of my objection to your post. You want us to be interested in you because you're attractive and talk about sex. Your narrative implies something personal, but its little more than a childish form of cyber flirting.
If you're Interseted in "slogging through" chess games with unattractive men, why does your avatar need to be an adomonishment about taking gifts in exchange for sex? If you're implying that your postings aren't provocative, how do you explain "An Indecent Proposal" ... parts one and two! This can be found on your profile.
What's your game Afaf? You mention sex obliquely and ask whether your missing avatar is appropriate. If you simply wanted the situation remedied, why not e-mail chess.com? You're obviously a pretty woman, if the current avatar is really your picture. Do you just need validation? It's easy enough to get that from men on the internet. According to your profile, you're almost 30 years old. Maybe you should find a more mature way of expressing your sexuality and stop posting things like a snickering teenager.
lol. I'd prefer if nobody else would get into this conversation with myself and Mr. Electricpawn.
From your random attack, Mr Electricpawn, it can be well assumed that you don't know me at all. Your decision to pick up on my age - as if it were a negative thing to be 28...and to attack me for asking about my avatar's disappearance are actually more to do with you and your perception of reality. One thing you really fail to realize is...I'm at a chess site - I study openings and slog through game after game with random married men who are often balding, and or old enough to call grandpa. There is nobody hot around to validate me. So chill out. Sorry about whatever "hot" girls have flipped their hair at you in disinterest. It's nothing to do with me. Smile.
How typical of your mind set. I point out the immature nature of your post, so hot women must have "flipped their hair at me in disinterest." Every adult has had both negative and positive experiences with members of the opposite sex.But this is a chess site, and I choose not to get into personal affairs. And this is part of my objection to your post. You want us to be interested in you because you're attractive and talk about sex. Your narrative implies something personal, but its little more than a childish form of cyber flirting.
If you're Interseted in "slogging through" chess games with unattractive men, why does your avatar need to be an adomonishment about taking gifts in exchange for sex? If you're implying that your postings aren't provocative, how do you explain "An Indecent Proposal" ... parts one and two! This can be found on your profile.
Electricpawn. 1. My photo was in no way provocative. If you want to say my posts are...fine, they are. Provocative for sexual attention or attention based on my gender? Nope, not even close. That's your projection based on the fact that I happen to be an attractive female. That's it. 2. My avatar, which has also been my avatar on facebook is just a sign that I found hilarious and stole from a friend. My god, why you are up in the business like that is anybody's guess. Cyber flirting...with who? Karl? with Nytik? lol...I have been talking to half the guys on this chess site for the past year and I don't think I've flirted with even one. I'm particularly harsh in my comments and I doubt anyone would find most of them to be even mildly delicate or "feminine". You are sadly mistaken. I guess when I publicly complained about Chess.com deleting the word "succubus" from my post, that qualifies as me trying to get naughty attention too. Oooh, bad girl. Your assumptions are so pathetic...I find it laughable when I even try to address them, it's like there's just soooo much you don't know. Perhaps what you find to be childish cyberflirting is just my personality...pretend I'm a boy and see if you would call it the same.
One other thing...I'm one of the few women I know of, and this might make me unpopular, who doesn't even like it when unattractive or older men give her attention or praise. I'm very likely to immediately tell someone he's like my uncle or my brother. I'm seriously, God help you, not seeking validation from chess guys.
Did you read Indecent Proposals Pt I and Pt II? lol. If I were a guy, I'd still have posted those up. In fact, what made me laugh most was the idea that it was working for her in some games. I have often come to Chess.com to laugh. I visit Beast's monthly reports for what's going on in Irish chess and I jump at any opportunity to heckle or harass. Stop being a menace...especially one that is just so badly off the mark.
Good points. I'm startng to find that out about a lot of women at this site now too. Some complain about men bothering them while flirting with almost any guy who comes along.
damn, this never happens to me.