people disappoint me! that makes me sad

people disappoint me! that makes me sad

Your personal problems are unappealing. That disappoints me.

ok

Seriously,I think maybe the secret is not to let people disappoint us whatever they do or however they react but to stay Happy regardless ..

I guess it's easier said than done but we could try ....

.. juz my opinion.

People suck, as a general rule. Side effect of evolution.

I sufer from tuberculosis, age 25 now I have, almost dead (anafilectic shock)...heal from that day whan I get Penicilin.Peopleis all is in your min,, sadnes, happy, dead, this or that... Thougths, but you see thoughts...you can cange tham and be happy now. Dont wory about superior conscioussnes, all is manifestation of your mind...wont be happy?! Just be... Sorry for language. Haukk

vigwam, just remember that your spirit is as healthy as ours, and when I hear it healthier than most. You are absolutely right, it is all in the mind and some of us are put in a body with some construction faults.

Haha, so interesting... It depends more from you than from them.

Anyway if you like chess and since everyone here also does like lol, let me make an exemple for you and I'm sure you'll never forget that! First of all, imagine that each person is a piece of chess and each piece of chess is a different type of personality... It's not difficult to conceive at all. Because if you realize, these different movements aren't there for nothing. I know, I know it was all originated in India...  and for this there are already existent specifics reasons to the movement of each piece and I also know that there are too many personalities and kinds of people but sometimes it's necessary to generalize, summarize and or modify something in order to get a better and more efficient comprehension; thus let's make concrete examples: You may see a pawn as one person who wants to reach an objetive and is always determined to get it whatever it is, but sure thing that it's better to become a queen than a tower , because the queen has the "power" in chess games. She can move anywhere and then she consequently is worthy more points, you can see the "queen" as someone who has rewards and benefits already and sometimes come a "knight" and capture her off lol (because who is  more slippery than knight and its "L's"? haha) and so on so on... (I'll let you conclude by your words and thoughts) My point anyway is: maybe you're right, some people really pisses us off and disappoints us... but the secret is simply in identifying who is who and try to elaborate a strategy, as such you elaborate different strategies for different situations in chess games, to deal with a different person or kind of personality. Life is a chess game haha or if you prefer, since you're mathematician, it's a pure mathematics - don't simply see the equations itself, see the numbers as people and equations as solutions to the numbers ( "people "). You'll get it and when you get it, you'll say: then was it? can't believe.

Of course that, as our dear friend(Kikyo) already said previously, easier said than done haha.

If still it's embarrassing in your mind, let's play one or two chess games any hour and then we can clarify it together haha. Anyway, thanks all.

thanks the all

I answer to your sad. DONT TRY TO LOVE ANYBODY. DONT TRY BICAUSE OF SEARCH, ROAD EXIST!

thank you

I love games, I love beauty, I love good food, I love skiing, I love ... Well a whole bunch of things. Apart from a good book the things I love are virtually all better when shared - and even a good book can be discussed with a friend or recommended to someone.

So, while being disappointed, remember all the stuff that is enriched for you by people.

Crusoe was very pleased when Friday turned up.

Most people are - it is the start of the weekend - lol

When you're upset with others, think how you've dissaappointed yourself and you certainly love and forgive yourself often enough ... DON"T YOU ?  " Remove the log from you're own eye FIRST and then you will see more clearly to help remove the splinter from your brother's eye. "

I agree with you OP. The good thing is if you start off with this assumption, you will never be disappointed. And it's not just "people"...it's "most people"...there are still some good fruit out there. I try to keep in contact with positive people, and stay away from the negative.

I also agree with "johnyoudell"...life has so much more to offer.

yes.

Which people? Don't expect too much from others. Majority think of others as their competitor, oppressor or victim. Appreciate your parents, best friend and beloved.

no,love the life!