Blitz chess can actually be insanely useful for time managment and endgames. It can help with positional play but rapid tends to be way better for that blitz is actually a very useful skill in rapid though.
You don't learn time management from playing long games and players tend to choke under time pressure and learning how to deal with time pressure is really helpful for long games.
And plenty of people improve with blitz and bullet but plenty don't it really depends on the person just writing it off for all beginners is dumb. but I do tend to agree that at least trying rapid first will help thifhh I actually see 500s play rapid like blitz sometimes and if your doing that just play blitz ... Your using the same amount of time anyway .
Though if your begginer and improving with rapid at a decent pace I would stick to rapid if your stuck swiching time controls can help or studying or reading books or analyzing games can help besides he's almost over 1000 anyway it's kinda at the area where you start being better at multiple time controls anyway
Not rely on r you have enough intuition it typically doesn't matter if your worried about not enough time 5+3 is perfect
Many beginners have an issue of not using rapid time correctly either playing like it's blitz chess (if so just play blitz you'd actually improve ) or if your thinking too long
You need time management practice anyway which bullet is insanely useful for it
Your right it csn have the opposite effect if your not careful but we long as you balance it out y doesn't matter at all besides why do you need to think 2 minutes a move anyway most beginners don't typically do that and from what I watched when they do they tend to blunder