There is no difference. When you subtract the two, you get 0.000... = 0. There is no 1 at the end, because there is no end. That's what "an infinite number of nines/zeroes" means. They are the same number.
This is not correct. Consult a text on 'real analysis' and/or 'complex analysis'. If your claim were true, vast amounts of solved mathematics would vanish.
The sum of an infinite series is, unfortunately, a number too (or undefined because the series diverge). I'm not sure I get what you mean by not confusing a number and a sum.