"We learn little from victory, but much from defeat"

Let us listen yo your theory. If I didnt like it, I won't report you SERIOUSLY.

control is conserved as it takes energy to control and energy is conserved- that means in English if you control something it ends up controlling you in the long run- why communism fails

emotion also is conserved as it takes energy that is why we suffer short bouts of everything going wrong and long periods of comfort as going wrong means something destroyed which takes more energy thus it is shorter and rarer. Also why people wont end up happy they will just be as when they die the hardness of death will equate to the joys of life.

trying to make people happy through control is ill advised strategy according to my theory

Yes, A victory is always caused by mistake(s) from opponents. Of course, you learn very little from opponent mistakes , anyone can make any random mistakes.