How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
That's so offensive. I'm a scaredy bunny
Age restrictions should be enforced by chess.com
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Sep 30, 2025
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#24
No clue who is facing mockings in in game chat, considering i started playing online being a 900, all the opponents had respect and not one of them mocked my moves, most were very nice and accepted draws when i mouseslipped. Maybe this is happening at lower elo's, i have never experienced this though
Sep 30, 2025
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#25
you insulted a player by asking for a draw because you mouse slipped?
no respect at all.
Sep 30, 2025
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#26
theGoodtheBadandtheCuddly hat geschrieben:
you insulted a player by asking for a draw because you mouse slipped?
no respect at all.
You 0layed 0 games on here, maybe keep out of this
Sep 30, 2025
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#27
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sep 30, 2025
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#28
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Im just not a baby about other people calling me names
Sep 30, 2025
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#29
sawdof wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
That's so offensive. I'm a scaredy bunny
Just like how you find it offensive to be called a scaredy cat, my friend also felt the same way. And if you all still don't understand. then you should try to put yourself in someone's shoes and not be an arrogant person
Sep 30, 2025
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#30
Weirdgerman wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Im just not a baby about other people calling me names
Yes but,NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME AS YOU. There are people across the world who find this sensitive.
Sep 30, 2025
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#31
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sensitive individuals and the people you are talking about shouldn't be on chess.com, it's obvious and a basic thing you shouldn't do if you're sensitivee or have a mental disability
But are they asking for it? No. Its the other person behind the screen whos responsible, not them
Sep 30, 2025
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#32
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
Weirdgerman wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Im just not a baby about other people calling me names
Yes but,NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME AS YOU. There are people across the world who find this sensitive.
Theyll survive. Its not like ill call em names. Every1 who calls sm1 else names has a lower self esteem which us why i dont take them seriously, every1 else should to
Sep 30, 2025
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#33
ANONYMOUS08008888888 hat geschrieben:
senisitive individuals SHOULDN'T BE ON CHESS.COM IN THE FIRST PLACE
Also true
Sep 30, 2025
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#34
Firstly, everyone has an equal right to being on this website. We are not shunning anyone based on whether they are sensitive or not. They came here to learn chess and practice, why should we limit them on the basis of that?
Sep 30, 2025
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#35
ANONYMOUS08008888888 hat geschrieben:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sensitive individuals and the people you are talking about shouldn't be on chess.com, it's obvious and a basic thing you shouldn't do if you're sensitivee or have a mental disability
But are they asking for it? No. Its the other person behind the screen whos responsible, not them
they know that you can chat on chess.com and people can say things, it's like saying that it's the governments fault that a hurricane hit your state
Lol, true.
Sep 30, 2025
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#36
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
Firstly, everyone has an equal right to being on this website. We are not shunning anyone based on whether they are sensitive or not. They came here to learn chess and practice, why should we limit them on the basis of that?
If they dont wanna be mocked, just keep out of the social side and turn of party chat. Problem solved
Sep 30, 2025
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#37
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sensitive individuals and the people you are talking about shouldn't be on chess.com, it's obvious and a basic thing you shouldn't do if you're sensitivee or have a mental disability
But are they asking for it? No. Its the other person behind the screen whos responsible, not them
they know that you can chat on chess.com and people can say things, it's like saying that it's the governments fault that a hurricane hit your state
Yes, they know that, but its just like knowing that a match is happening but you don't know the outcome. How can we predict what the other person is going to say and be prepared?
Sep 30, 2025
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#38
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sensitive individuals and the people you are talking about shouldn't be on chess.com, it's obvious and a basic thing you shouldn't do if you're sensitivee or have a mental disability
But are they asking for it? No. Its the other person behind the screen whos responsible, not them
they know that you can chat on chess.com and people can say things, it's like saying that it's the governments fault that a hurricane hit your state
Yes, they know that, but its just like knowing that a match is happening but you don't know the outcome. How can we predict what the other person is going to say and be prepared?
Just turn off party chat
Sep 30, 2025
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#39
Also, I will ask you to do something. Predict what I'm going to say next. EXACTLY AND NO MISTAKES
Sep 30, 2025
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#40
Weirdgerman wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game hat geschrieben:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
How_to_lose_a_chess_game wrote:
ANONYMOUS08008888888 wrote:
chekagain wrote:
oh noo, she got called a scaredy cat, thats horrific. what a meanie pants
I agree maybe that was an overreaction for reporting them but the guy was just being a bad sport, it's still not that deep
Should I call you a scaredy cat from now onwards?
do anything u want, reporting is for abuse and being called a scaredy cat isn't abuse
Calling someone a 'scaredy cat' online can constitute emotional abuse because it targets a person's self-esteem, uses shame to manipulate behavior, and contributes to a toxic digital environment.
While "scaredy cat" may seem like a harmless or childish insult, in the context of online communication, especially when used repeatedly or in public forums, it can be a tool for belittling, mocking, and shaming someone for expressing fear or caution. This kind of labeling can:
-Undermine a person's confidence or sense of safety in expressing themselves.
-Pressure them into doing things they’re uncomfortable with just to avoid ridicule.
-Be especially harmful to children or sensitive individuals, where the cumulative impact of "small" insults contributes to long-term emotional distress.
Just because a term is socially normalized doesn’t mean it can’t be abusive — emotional abuse often hides behind "jokes" or so-called harmless teasing.
Sensitive individuals and the people you are talking about shouldn't be on chess.com, it's obvious and a basic thing you shouldn't do if you're sensitivee or have a mental disability
But are they asking for it? No. Its the other person behind the screen whos responsible, not them
they know that you can chat on chess.com and people can say things, it's like saying that it's the governments fault that a hurricane hit your state
Yes, they know that, but its just like knowing that a match is happening but you don't know the outcome. How can we predict what the other person is going to say and be prepared?
Just turn off party chat
Is everything in your mind just turning off chat?
One of my school students recently shared a troubling experience on chess.com. ...
Hey teacher, leave those kids alone