@ghost_of_pushwood
Thank you for the comment but what you said is quite funny. Where should I ask such questions if not on chess.com?
For example, although you are an NM, your blitz rating on this website is 1950. As there is only 200 rating difference between us, aiming to become an NM within 2 years seems to be a perfectly reasonable and realistic goal to me now.
Details like this can be useful and beneficial. Most of the time, all I do is to play or study by myself, and as we are social beings, I also want to discuss stuff like this with other chess players. That is what forums are for.
People might say that, "without 3-4 hours a day study it's not easy" or "you definitely need a coach" or "i found this or that to be very useful, definitely do it"... We cannot know without asking, can we?
I learned how to play chess 3 years ago (at the age of 32). before that, I knew nothing about chess and today my online chess ratings are between 1750-1900. I genuinely want to become a chess master(an FM or NM) within 2 years. How realistic you people think this goal is?
Thanks.