Are you sure that the word "cheating" was used? and not something along the lines of "violation of fair play policy"?
Cheating

No,,,you are right,,,cheating was the word I used,,,violation of fair play is the same thing in my opinion. So,,,how can losing connection be a violation of "fair play"???

I did not disconnect,,,,I LOST connection on my laptop. I'm more upset about the points I lost after working so hard to get above 1200 again!!
I was seconds from winning a game,,which I clearly would have won even if my opponant was not running out of time. Then I lost connection to the site. It came back up,,but would not load. Then I lost connection for a second time. I was then informed I had lost due to cheating. What!!! Are you kidding me!! I have never cheated in a game of chess and have no chess programs on my cumputer!! Tell me how this could have happened????