I guess for me personally, the advice I hate hearing (but understand it's good) is needing to hire a master to get lessons from and go over games with. I know it works as a friend of mine was stuck at the same rating for 20 years, then he hired a coach and gained 200 rating points the very next year.
I'm in a strange funk of not being able to settle on a repertoire. I'll spend a year learning the french, decide I hate the exchange variation no matter how much I prepare for it, and then start all over again with the Caro-Kann. Same deal on the queen pawn side: I've been playing the QGD for the past year, now suddenly I think the Meran system is exactly where I want to be. It's like chasing a rainbow for a pot of gold that never appears.
Yeah ? This is a process not a result. Ratings reflect your on-going process and nothing in themselves/ 2400, 1800, so ?
Different chess players have different goals in chess. Some are trying to get a title, or a certain rating , or maybe win their state championship, or just their school championship. I have also met class players in my life that were class players for decades and didnt work to try and improve. They just loved to play/compete and socialize with other chess players. They had fun and I believe they often had more fun than I have because their losses didnt bother them so much as mine bothered me. Sometimes I envy them and wish I had as much fun as they have and maybe as I am entering the endgame of my life some of the fun I used to have in chess will return. Time will tell....
Well said. I envy those that have the time to get to your level!! Not that the time is a guarantee, but, it sure helps.
Enjoy your endgame. Have fun!