that's true. the only romantic scenario in that would be if the wife gets everything after the divorce given the guy isn't poor :P
Divorcing chess
Divorce nothing T93 !....why did you lose ?
I mean, I've lost every which way....and I mean every possible way....and have kept going. Your anger actually means a really good thing. It means that it means something to you.
(forgive my ways and means luv....)
Okay. Tomorrow is Sunday. Take 5 steps out into the sunlite and face to the east. Now, close your eyes, take (3) deep breaths, and think of how great your life would be if you were the 13th child born somewhere in the <3 of Haiti.
Don't tame your anger. It won't help a person w/ your type of personality. Get Mad....Get Mad Dam*it. Let it out and Let it go.
....then go kick their freaking a$$ hon........
I'll just address this paragraph by paragraph:
1. I lost because I made the last mistake in the game. Works every time. 
2. Of course it means something to me. In fact, it means quite a lot to my ego (and that's why I feel like that six-move loss a while ago might've kind of traumatised me, at least on top of various other losses I was dealt in (and outside of?) chess), but then I realised I shouldn't really value myself in comparison to others like that. And in the end, I'm not just a chess player, I'm so much more, and with all that going on, I can and should be able to stand firm on my own. 
3. I forgive you. Forgiving is love, forgiving is life. ^_^
4. Well... fluffernutter. It's already about 23:30 here, and it's Sunday, so... guess I'll have to wait for some Monday sun instead. 
5. & 6. I still think focusing anger into whatever's the most productive is the way to go, and don't worry, I'm not even considering bottling it up. All in all, that's the way I deal my rear-side roundhouses! 
As for the rest of you lot, you're all quite witty and helpful, as usual! I do insist that you keep it up! 
why is chess a girl?