Arw god. The hand-wringing majority.
Don't get me wrong marcosite, I'm not a pushover with people, and have had to be straight with many and have told a few that if they stay in the situation they're in there is a strong possibility the next time I will meet them is in the A&E resusitation room. But I still feel for them.
Face what we are and live with it. Turns out Mommy wasn't pure & Daddy needed to learn how to deal with it. He couldn't. didn't. shouldn't. Do your best OP.