Frustrated from unfair opponents

Hi, my first post here. First of all, most of the time i enjoy chess.com, it is a great platform.

But. (sorry for my english)

I don't want to sound that i have "massive" prejustices but...

I experience a totally frustrating behaviour, first from players from India, who as it seems all of them have very bad connections and there are constant connection breaks. The problem with India players is that they never apologize for the awful experience playing with them. (at least the players i match against). Worst than India players are (north) Americans.

Again i have to apologise a lot of players from US are very good, polite and offer a nice experience but almost 50% of US players, hasitate on purpose, try to win the match by delaying 10 minutes so their opponent to abandon by boredom, when the match turns against them (which is very often, most of them are mediocre players - at least players that are randomly assigned to me ) they delay, disconnect on purpose, (their signal is fine) etc.

So. I decided to abort most matches from India and North America because i really like to play chess, not play like a kid, and now chess.com warn me that i should play "fairly", me that i 'm always polite, try not to create any form of annoyance to my opponents and in general i prefer i nice and straight match of chess....

Regards,

John