Don't play for be the best !! Play for fun and always is good to get better even when you are n a lose streak =) ! Greetings from a Mexican chess player
Hard to stay interested in chess when Im so bad.


it just makes me hate myself. Anybody else have this problem?
Don't know you well enough to hate you but tell us a little more about yourself. The whining makes me think I might be starting to feel a tiny bit of dislike.

hello man, i can help y0u , i could be your chess coach , my fide rating is 2100 , i´m looking for students and improve my english by skype ( you win , i win "quid pro quo"), if y0u are interested send a message, the classes would be in a very good chess program (i will send you the link) to chess analysis and coaching.

Best thing to do is to get really good at chess.
Then get really good at science and build at time machine.
Then go back in time to now and see your future grandmaster self so you will be motivated.

My only tip is that if you can find a chess club near you, start playing there if the people there accept you and are happy to play against you. (Unfortunately, I have a hater group comprised of people who are happy to b**ch and spread rumours about me amongst themselves. I am under 18, and a lot of the clubs around my area tend to look down upon juniors. There's only one club that's friendly towards most juniors, and unfortunately the juniors there are part of the hater group.)
Ermm...when that many people around you seem to be "haters", maybe it's time to check the mirror.
I stopped playing 35 years ago because I was getting worse, not better, and now I regret it. I've just started playing again. Don't make the same mistake I did.
A lot depends on the character of your teachers and the people you play.
I've been learning chess for about 3 months. I came here after ditching another chess web site. Their version of tactics trainer would present a puzzle and ask for the best move. If you get it wrong it blasts "WRONG" at you in all capital red letters, then half second later erases the board and presents the next puzzle. No chance to try again, no ability to analyze after, and no learning for me.
I got very frustrated after doing those puzzles and getting nothing but WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG WRONG. That web site is made by a chess sadist.
Choose carefully who you play.
Make us proud. That's an order, soldier!