How much does confidence matter?


tell them you are part of la cosa nostra. and if you lose you will place their horse's head in their bed. failing no horse, try their cat, dog or possibly their hamster.

I think real confidence comes from knowing that we're all worthwhile people regardless of our rating.
Confidence is fake when it's rooted in insecurity.
When playing a more advanced opponent, I'm nervous at first (more stress at the thought of solving harder puzzles) but then, when I'm concentrating on each puzzle, I'm not thinking whether I'm better or worse than the opponent, I'm only thinking in the moment.

so i would think having confidence, even if it is false/imagined, can be beneficial
i have little confidence in chess atm
i have mating nets and abandon them fearing some imaginary mate my opponent has that needs defending
i have gone from respecting my opponents to overestimating their ability
so, yes confidence is a factor imo

Confidence and trash talking are not the same thing. Trash talkers are people who are compensating for the fact that they have little confidence in themselves.



Single game flukes are possible as we know from statistics. No 1900 player (that isn't a prodigy who in fact plays at a 2500 level but his/her rating hasn't yet caught up) can beat a 2500 player in a match.

There was one game where I was utterly terrified of my opponent. I would find the right moves but I was very scared and did not believe in myself enough to make those moves. A couple strong players were watching my game and I was scared if they were judging me, etc. I ended up being extremely nervous and as a result wasted a lot of time and later fell to an easy tactic. There was also a game where I was losing badly to an 1800, I had outplayed him and gotten into a good position but then got extremely overconfident and was like "ok this is just some patzer look at my position I will smash him easily" and I got into a very bad position shortly after and was getting smashed, but luckily I survived by messing up the position. Many of my good games came from just the right amount of confidence, being delusional in your abilities is definitely not going to help along with not trusting yourself enough.