I get very angry when I lose a chess game

I am the worst chess player and have pathetic sportsmanship specially in chess games. Whenever I start losing a chess game I get very angry and then I start  abusing to opponent or cheating. I feel like I should hit them. Don't know why I do this. I always think I will not repeat it but as soon I start losing the game I do same things. I am not improving my game at all. I can't calculate. Should I quit the chess ? Is there anyway?

You should definitely NOT abuse the opponent or cheat.

If you can not find a way to not do those two things then I honestly do think it would be better for you to stop playing until you can.

Learning how to lose/fail with composure is a huge maturity step that's difficult for almost everyone. It takes practice.

No one likes to lose, I think most people get brassed off after a loss. Perhaps if you give yourself a few minutes break after losing to calm down. It's worth a try, if you haven't already.

Hmm, a case of bad sportsmanship? Okay,I don't think you need to resort to quitting chess yet. Here are some thoughts:Remember,chess IS JUST A GAME, no matter how AWESOME it may be (and it is). I lose plenty of chess (and other) games all the time, and nobody cares if you lose. Nobody can win all the time, or nobody would want to play with them. In fact everybody loves to feel good about themselves, so when you lose they usually will be far from angry. When you lose, take a deep breath,shake their hand, and day good game. People like it when you can admit when you're wrong, and they will respect you more when you do. If you start to get angry walk away and breathe until you're comfortable talking. Then explain why you feel frustrated. They will be much more willing to great what you say than if you scream at them. Also, last thing, spending some time in scripture and praying definitely helps me. I'll be praying for you ☺️🤗

What do you mean?

Dude, you are pretty much at my rating level (around 1200). We have no business going around disrespecting people because of their rating. Our ratings are still beginner-level. We are not yet good at chess. And most importantly, even if we were, we still would have no business going dissing people.

You hear?

Habanabanananero, that was one of the greatest posts I've ever read

Also HiramHoliday, I'm still learning and trying out different tactics, you don't need to be a jerk to people just because you have a higher score than them.

you are nine rating points higher than the op

Ikr?

If it makes anyone else feel better, all of u are better than me! When I joined chess.com, I was a 1200, now I’m lucky if I break 800. And when I’m consistently losing online, there is a great deal of colorful language !🤬🤬🤬

True.

It is normal that your improvement slows down as you get better and better. Analyse your games in order to keep improving. Don't cheat, that certainly won't make you a better player, if you continue playing, analyse your games and watch GMs or IMs on youtube teach chess you will raise your rating couple of hundreds of points at least.

Mine is like 420 😢😂😢😢😢

You know better than us answers to those questions. We can't read your mind. I can only tell you about my own experience with chess. I don't get angry when I lose a game, but when I make a dumb mistake, but I am rated 1800, I lose games even when I don't make dumb mistakes, so maybe that's why I made that distinction. At your level people are making silly mistakes all the time, it is rare that a player who loses does so without making silly mistakes. When I was your rating I would also often get angry because of how often I made silly mistakes. I understand that part of your comment completely, however, upon feeling those emotions, wanting to punch your opponent or to cheat is something completely different. For that you need a psychologist since that's not a normal reaction.

you most likely are playing cheaters i think this site is 75 percent cheaters

I am sorry to be the one to tell you this, but you are completely delusional. Had you said 7.5% of your games are against cheaters, unless you are rated like 2300+ and you are playing 10 minute games than that would still be delusional.

Take an objective look at your comment right here. Is it not disrispectful? I sure think it is. Yoo are calling people deranged and all that after all.

this is so fake lol