relatable, but my brother is 1700 and beat 5cms and 2 fms
I need advice from a titled player

You can get an "attacking" "style" by calculating better and doing more tactics, while also developing pieces both actively and logically. Attacks ungrounded in reality is nothing more than a blunder (it has to make sense!)
Here is an example of an attack and why it was good:
Here's an example of an attack not on the enemy king:


Play moves that dont give weaknesses. Just dont blunder stuff and you can get to maybe 1700-1800 rating

Tactics, Tactics, Tactics.
Study Morphy, Fischer, and Mikial Tal.
This won't solve all your problems because as you increase in strength, so do your opponents.
Play openings that encourage Tactics.
Here are some examples:
Scandinavian, KID, the Benoni, Sicilian, the Benko Gambit. The Kings Gambit. Etc.
Remember, two sayings that apply to all areas in life.
" Those who live by the sword, die by the sword. "
" Do not pull me without reason. Do not sheath me with out honor. "

Tactics, Tactics, Tactics.
Study Morphy, Fischer, and Mikial Tal.
This won't solve all your problems because as you increase in strength, so do your opponents.
Play openings that encourage Tactics.
Here are some examples:
Scandinavian, KID, the Benoni, Sicilian, the Benko Gambit. The Kings Gambit. Etc.
Remember, two sayings that apply to all areas in life.
" Those who live by the sword, die by the sword. "
" Do not pull me without reason. Do not sheath me with out honor. "
I know but like
I wouldn't want to attack if it gives my opponent the chance to attack.
The king's gambit's really risky...

Of course. Everything is risky.
If you "go to pick a fight " on the chess board, don't be surprised if you receive one.
There are more "diplomatic " actions as well.
Examples:
The Petroff, the QGA, the Caro kann etc. ( although they have teeth as well)
The middle game is a dance with knives. You both have one. You can not be afraid of being cut.
There is no chess game on record where only one side got to make moves.
I'm actually tilting hard rn,I need advice from a titled player.
The advice I need is what style is best me,and how to excel on that.I'm trying to get an "attacking" style,in other words Paul Morphy style,but it's getting hard now that I am increasing my rating.