chess is like sex, you slow down in time.. but no need to be mad at yourself.. it's way of life. always there is something in chess for everyone. just find what suits you fine.. and enjoy.
I really, really hate fast time controls.

May try some 15+10 at some point & see how that works for me. Have seen quite a few people recommend it. No harm in trying a couple games I suppose.
I think you will enjoy that. Plenty of time to think through the moves and not feel rushed.
there is definitely something fishy going on on this site, cause you are at certain level, and you play people with similar rating, but, you feel when you are being outplayed by a person, like real person, you make mistakes, your opponent makes a mistake and inaccurcies here and there, but you feel when you made a mistake and lose a game, but it goes like 50/50, some, more than comfortable, and you feel like you're not facing a person, a real human being playing, cause you got, say, very tight position, or a complex postion, and there you have it, you make a slight inaccuracy and you get punished in seconds, your position collapses instantly, and your opponent makes all the moves in seconds, top engine lines, like i dont mind being outplayed, but many times it does feel like you are not against a human, but i guess this is the new reality and if someone gets a thrill from not playing himself, i guess it is fine, you can still learn from it after the game by analyzing your game
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Can this game also take my handicap into account by not using that clock?

there is definitely something fishy going on on this site, cause you are at certain level, and you play people with similar rating, but, you feel when you are being outplayed by a person, like real person, you make mistakes, your opponent makes a mistake and inaccurcies here and there, but you feel when you made a mistake and lose a game, but it goes like 50/50, some, more than comfortable, and you feel like you're not facing a person, a real human being playing, cause you got, say, very tight position, or a complex postion, and there you have it, you make a slight inaccuracy and you get punished in seconds, your position collapses instantly, and your opponent makes all the moves in seconds, top engine lines, like i dont mind being outplayed, but many times it does feel like you are not against a human, but i guess this is the new reality and if someone gets a thrill from not playing himself, i guess it is fine, you can still learn from it after the game by analyzing your game
do you know what periods are?
also skill issue, people don't cheat at 800-1000; and if they did, they're absolutely horrible at cheating.
there is definitely something fishy going on on this site, cause you are at certain level, and you play people with similar rating, but, you feel when you are being outplayed by a person, like real person, you make mistakes, your opponent makes a mistake and inaccurcies here and there, but you feel when you made a mistake and lose a game, but it goes like 50/50, some, more than comfortable, and you feel like you're not facing a person, a real human being playing, cause you got, say, very tight position, or a complex postion, and there you have it, you make a slight inaccuracy and you get punished in seconds, your position collapses instantly, and your opponent makes all the moves in seconds, top engine lines, like i dont mind being outplayed, but many times it does feel like you are not against a human, but i guess this is the new reality and if someone gets a thrill from not playing himself, i guess it is fine, you can still learn from it after the game by analyzing your game
do you know what periods are?
also skill issue, people don't cheat at 800-1000; and if they did, they're absolutely horrible at cheating.
people absolutely cheat at any level, it is just part of the game these days, it has evolved to a point where they just peak at engine at moments they are in trouble, or dont know what to do, this has been discussed over and over again
May try some 15+10 at some point & see how that works for me. Have seen quite a few people recommend it. No harm in trying a couple games I suppose.