<<<You have to be tall, handsome, athletic, rich, kind, and you must listen to them, and show genuine interest in what they say, you have to buy them gifts, be funny, wine and dine them, be generous, give them flowers, be able to dance or sing or have interesting hobbies or a nice car.>>>
If they earn as much as you and they don't contribute, dump them. If they expect gifts and don't give anything, same. If you fall for a one-sided relationship, don't expect it to work.
okay so summed up there was this girl (looked amazing btw and super sweet) that got my number from one of my coworkers and she called me saying i looked cute and we should hangout watch a movie at her place or something one night i said sweet just name a time she said Saturday evening would be perfect..... i told her that there was a chess tournament that day..... she called me a fat nerd and a loser then she blocked me on everything chat am i cooked?
Dodged a bullit there, my brotha!
Chess is way better than women. Women will never be satisfied. It's in their nature to complain. It's a hassle to get one, and even more hassle to make them happy. You basically have to be a jester to them, their entertainment, and fullfil every need they got.
You have to be tall, handsome, athletic, rich, kind, and you must listen to them, and show genuine interest in what they say, you have to buy them gifts, be funny, wine and dine them, be generous, give them flowers, be able to dance or sing or have interesting hobbies or a nice car.
The level of entitlement in women today is midboggeling. And they'll give you NOTHING in return.
Somebody must be crazy.
Absolutely true, then when their done using you they divorce you and take 70% of everything and the house even if they never worked or paid for anything..
That's women being clever and men being dim. Only marry someone who loves you or have a get-out.
Men marry out of love. Women make a business out of it. The best advice: Never marry anyone. If you lvoe a woman, stay with her until the day you die, but never put a ring on her so when she leaves, which she will, you won't have to give up the things you've built.
okay so summed up there was this girl (looked amazing btw and super sweet) that got my number from one of my coworkers and she called me saying i looked cute and we should hangout watch a movie at her place or something one night i said sweet just name a time she said Saturday evening would be perfect..... i told her that there was a chess tournament that day..... she called me a fat nerd and a loser then she blocked me on everything chat am i cooked?
Dodged a bullit there, my brotha!
Chess is way better than women. Women will never be satisfied. It's in their nature to complain. It's a hassle to get one, and even more hassle to make them happy. You basically have to be a jester to them, their entertainment, and fullfil every need they got.
You have to be tall, handsome, athletic, rich, kind, and you must listen to them, and show genuine interest in what they say, you have to buy them gifts, be funny, wine and dine them, be generous, give them flowers, be able to dance or sing or have interesting hobbies or a nice car.
The level of entitlement in women today is midboggeling. And they'll give you NOTHING in return.
this was so wrong to say on SO many levels
How are you stereotyping 50% of all humans like that 💀
We need to make it a nice round 100
Never date anyone that treats you like a piece of crap. making fun of your hobbies is a big red flag. She probably has insane standards for who is "good enough" and will be manipulating if she thinks it's not ok to play chess and switches up on you.
Never date anyone that treats you like a piece of crap. making fun of your hobbies is a big red flag. She probably has insane standards for who is "good enough" and will be manipulating if she thinks it's not ok to play chess and switches up on you.
100% has insanely high standards, and offers very little of her own.
And because of her unrealistically high standards coupled with the idea of the disposable man, she will end up desperate and lonely and/or very unhappy in her 40s.
If she manages to marry someone in the end, she will settle for someone she resents, their marriage will be crap, she is only in it for children, and then one day she'll meet someone else and "upgrades" the dude to someone better, or so she hopes.
But I can also guarantee, that someone who dates a married with children 40 year old woman, only does so because he's playing. And that's when she REALLY gets hit by the loneliness, because now with mid 40s she can't get the attention any more that she used to get in her 20s, and she'll become bitter and delusional. Her loneliness is a "choice" suddenly and "she's happier with her cats", and she'll run around clubs trying to get attention from hot guys.
Oh, what a fantasy. But unfortunately that is the reality for the vast majority of women these days. Wait until all these girls from the tinder era and later turn that age... The oldest ones are already in their 30s by now. Wait till they hit 40 and 50. Epidemic incoming.
You're right when you say "never marry a woman that makes fun of your hobbies" but if you have decent standards nowadays, you will have to pass on every woman you meet because there is no humility and gratefulness any more. Women look down on men.
You wanna play a tournament, you play it. On here, OTB in some massive event, in your local chess club, with your mates for a $10, it's all good.
No, chess isn't better than a girlfriend. They're so different that they can't be compared but it's something you can do whan you fall out because you're playing chess all the time.
Every game of chess is different, just like women. Tell me again they can't be compared
They can't be compared.
So you're saying all women are the same and it CAN be compared to chess?
I didn't think so but if you insist then I could say I was saying that. You should probably have posted the relevant bit. Learn to undersand logic too?
Didn't you tell the dimwit, "They can't" not they can, basic English fellas.
What I mean is you should be able to tell if someone's just after the money and if you can't. that's your fault. The answer is probably don't play chess too much. Men are just as bad as the women ... they want a car, a nice wife etc .... just tick boxes.