If someone asked you to resign in an OTB chess tournament game, would you take offense and get upset?
If you struggled on for 15 more moves or so, or soaked up another hour or so before resigning, and the other player looked at you with disgust and irritation like "You dumb dumb, why didn't you resign earlier and saved us some time?" Would you get offended?
Why do people keep asking this question? Don't they know they're lost already? Don't they know when to give up?
What is a "lost" potion to one person, isnt to another.