Looking for like-minded friends

Do you feel like me that live chess at chess.com is too aggressive? You feel as if your opponent wants to kill you, as if it were a matter of life and death. Too many start with some variant of the fried liver attack. Win or lose it often feels like a wasted game. I like positional games. I am looking for friends with similar ideas who would like to play with me. I don't play blitz or games which last for days. 15/10 or 30 prefered. Of course people with a rating similar to mine. We could also create a group. Please write here or send me a pm

why not just crush your opponents if they are over aggressive? seems like they are doing you a favor

Just learn how to defend against the Fried Liver Attack, turn off the chat, and go have fun winning every game.

They manage to intimidate me

I wish it were that simple

Then, you should do anything but avoid them.