Of course you owe a rematch
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learningthemoves
Jan 28, 2016
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#41
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OP is butthurt. I'd like to play you as white, then not offer a rematch.
nacional100 wrote:
How can someone be angry because his opponent doesn't rematch?
We are playing on a website dude. If I finish a game and feel like making a sandwich, I will not rematch, even if I lost. Nobody cares so much about chess.com "rating".
There are guys like you on chess.com but there are also other players who care too much about their chess.com ratings. That is one of the reasons why they don't give a rematch. They see they have won quite luckily and don't want to play a rematch because they are afraid of losing their chess.com rating.
But we can not generalize anything because there are too many kinds of players.
You actually think some complete stranger owes you their time so that you can salvage your ego, and if they don't comply then chess.com should subtract rating points for refusing a rematch? And then you try to justify your verbal abuse for their percieved lack of sportsmanship? It's a truly remarkable thing, the mental gymnastics some people need to do in order to cope with things.
Here's a solution: How about mods ban your account for breaking the rules. That way others wont have to hear your pathetic whining about it, and you don't have to suffer the horrible trauma of losing a game of chess, which you obviously cannot handle.
Everybody wins.
Jan 28, 2016
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#46
When I played speed chess, I would do rematches only because I was too lazy to seek out another opponent.
#45 says it all.
Daballs1106 wrote:
What is relevant is that in the VAST majority of cases, rematches are only refused when the other guy's turn is to play black.
Not true, I never rematch, mainly because I hate playing whiny bitches such as yourself. You have a "Boohoo play my way or you're a coward" attitude and I'd probably slap you across the face if I ever played you in real life.
By the way, there is no advantage to playing white - Adorján: "The tale of White's advantage is a delusion, belief in it is based on mass psychosis."
Other people's time doesn't belong to you. True bad sportsmanship comes from people who complain about other players not conforming to what they decide should be considered proper etiquette. Guys like you always have one thing in common, which is a disgustingly small penis - Shamefully tiny.
To the OP: Quit your whining. Stop being a sore loser. Put a lid on the bad language and move on to another opponent.
"low moral qualities"- wow...
I feel SO ashamed. I never knew that having to go the bathroom, get a bite to eat, to do a chore my wife asked me to do in the middle of a game "ok, let me do it RIGHT after this game" was so Immoral.
apparently Morals dictate that my Needs are Less important than your desire for revenge?
Daballs1106 wrote:
Nothing is more irritating than playing a first game with a new opponent in black and then having the same opponent not agree to a rematch if he/she defeats you. I consider it a complete lack of guts to simply slink away after winning playing white, and have left notes on other players' accounts telling them that. Recently, someone commented back to me that there should be no expectation of a rematch, ands that he found my language offensive. My response back is that he is a hypocrite, and here is why.
Those Slinky little basters!
Spineless Jelly Fish players I tell you!
During my chess.com experince I have come to accept not everyone is as fortunate as other.
You see OP the Great Wizard of Oz has not blesssed everyone with courage!
Poor little baby, the system gives you 50/50 white and black.
I don't owe anyone anything. I'll stop playing when I want to. I don't care about ethics on an online site.
Jan 28, 2016
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#54
Playing as white is not an advantage unless you're at the GM/IM level. I don't know why people get so peeved by this.
Osfan37 wrote:
Playing as white is not an advantage unless you're at the GM/IM level. I don't know why people get so peeved by this.
Someone that gets it!
I wish people would quit pretending they are so good at chess, they think they get a microscopic advantage playing white.
Please see the following posts regarding rematches
https://www.chess.com/forum/search?keyword=rematch
You guys are hopeless. I don't agree Xplayer,but I love the picture.
do I accept rematches, Most of them! and "why"
"What makes a King out of a slave? What makes the flag on the mast to wave? What makes the elephant charge his tusk in the misty mist or the dusky dusk? What makes the muskrat guard his musk? ...
What makes the Sphinx the 7th Wonder? What makes the dawn come up like THUNDER?! What makes the Hottentot so hot? What puts the "ape" in ape-ricot? Whatta they got that I ain't got? ?"
... No, I rematch as a matter of courtesy IF I still feel like I'm still ready to play chess (and don't have other pressing things to do).
and I really see NO bravery to it! sorry!
Jan 28, 2016
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#58
I always accept rematches. I like playing same opponent with both colors.
Sometimes I accept rematches, sometimes I don't (I rarely ask for a rematch). It's not personal -- it usually just boils down to whether I have the time and energy to continue. People should not take these issues so personally when playing chess on the internet with complete strangers. I think that those who feel offended about not getting a rematch are too self-centered, and are basing too much of their self-esteem on this game.
TurboFish wrote:
Sometimes I accept rematches, sometimes I don't (I rarely ask for a rematch). It's not personal -- it usually just boils down to whether I have the time and energy to continue. People should not take these issues so personally when playing chess on the internet with complete strangers. I think that those who feel offended about not getting a rematch are too self-centered, and are basing too much of their self-esteem on this game.
+1this is absolutely how I feel about it.
The big question for all you ,who say you MUST accept rematches- are you true to your Ideal!?
do you courageously accept ALL rematches? if you want to be moral, ethical and call out all of cc's "jellyfish"- you Must! practice what you preach, brave rematching warriors!
you should put a badge on your profile, or perhaps I could send you a trophy- formidable warrior- "do not play lightly (and without a lot of time)"?