Profanity is the crutch of the inarticulate!!
Please stop verbal abuse
Sort:
Who are these "monitors"? Are they paid or are they volunteers for free? Or both? And are there enough of them? What are their qualifications? Who appoints them? What are their criteria for making decisions? It could be helpful to us in understanding why so much abuse is going on why we seem to be having so much trouble in stopping, or, at least, slowing down such abusive behavior. Has Chess.com, the best chess site in the world, given out any information about what is being done to help in all this?
SPARTANEMESIS wrote:
I feel like timbeau didn't appreciate my educated response to his disparaging remark.
"educated response" ... I think that might be a bit of metal-head iron-y?
hahahahahahahaha
(is that the same as 'lol' ?)
Ok that you have ran over him.
Now back it up and do it again.
hmmm... I'm not sure about that one mate.
Roadkill!
He look famaliar? That is why he has no avatar. This the guy you gave a ride home. He took 2 dollars out your change jar which you use to pay toll to get to work and left you with double tha value in Bus tokens. He figures you owe him.
I feel like I may have hurt timbeau and royalbishop's feelings.
If someone offends you there are two solutions:
1. get over it
2. continue to feel hurt and angry
Those are the only 2 solutions. Trying to make people stop offending you isn't one, because they have the choice of whether or not to stop, and you don't. So just worry about yourself. End of discussion.
SPARTANEMESIS wrote:
I feel like I may have hurt timbeau and royalbishop's feelings.
Man you wer crying like a baby last week when they made a fool of you here. They kept tag teaming you for 2hrs strainght. The when i try to help you out you lash out at me.
I clearly regret helping you out then. Thanks for nothing i see no good deed goes unpunished and still paying for it. Lose my number bucko.
royalbishop I've seen how helpful you can be just as I see you helping with the tag teaming. If that's the kind of helping out you regret doing for me I can only hope you were more helpful to others. If I hurt anyone's feelings with a simple example of verbal abuse just say so and I will consider offering an apology which may help you feel better; maybe you'll even stop crying about it.
macer75 wrote:
If someone offends you there are two solutions:
1. get over it
2. continue to feel hurt and angry
Those are the only 2 solutions. Trying to make people stop offending you isn't one, because they have the choice of whether or not to stop, and you don't. So just worry about yourself. End of discussion.
Unfortunately though too many decide on a third option: self-righteous bloody revenge.
And that 'metal-head' crack of mine yesterday was misplaced. I mistook SPARTANEMISIS for that bloke with the Terminator 'avatar'. (godIhate that particular term)
There is something so similar in their styles though that they could be one and the same person...
timbeau wrote:
SPARTANEMESIS wrote:
I feel like timbeau didn't appreciate my educated response to his disparaging remark.
"educated response" ... I think that might be a bit of metal-head iron-y?
hahahahahahahaha
(is that the same as 'lol' ?)
I see why you say that now!
Plus this guy(SPARTANEMESIS) has no games going now and not in a long time. Not all intereted in play chess now.
I had several people PM and they are right ..... you got anger issues....
So he just comes here to bla bla bla.
They said they are leaving this thread due to you as you SPARTANEMESIS and you will keep this up forever.
Go ahead leave another comment as you will. Maybe timbeau will still be here to enjoy it. Adios!
[Edit] Note:
timbeau - And, are people really "leaving this thread"...due to me ?
Sorry timbeau i was refering to you as i have no probleme with you at all. Hard to enjoy this when SPARTANEMESIS is here as he is not playing any games nor has he in while. SPARTANEMESIS just here to argue and get the last word. I can get that from Woman at least when we make up i can enjoy debate better along with making up!
timbeau I recognize that you're up to your old tricks again.
royalbishop are you saying that despite all the people you've helped you couldn't even recruit one person to help with your tag team?
Yeah, it turns out I did hurt their feelings.
Which old tricks are they SPARTANEMISIS ? I truly have no idea what you're on about... Sincerely and truly!
Hey royalbishop, would you clarify a couple of ambiguities in your last post please?
Am I the person with "anger issues" to whom you refer?
And, are people really "leaving this thread"...due to me ?
I realize that sounds paranoid but who likes to be hated?!?
You seem to have your finger on the pulse (or a pulse) so to speak, royalbishop; why do people "PM" you (whatever that means) instead of discussing this in the forum?
Look Guys......Someone did this to help to solve a problem about verbal abuse. Dont exchanged accused to each other.
I feel like timbeau didn't appreciate my educated response to his disparaging remark.