I get, so tired of having to play at a ridiculous level for 1200 to 1300 to win a game. I get that the objective is to win, but the try hard is insane here, even after the game is over and they win they won't chat and often don't offer a rematch. Chess is supposed to be a three game match. Just doesn't feel like a place you can make any friends or teachers in chess, because everyone wants to be magnus...
"I get, so tired of having to play at a ridiculous level for 1200 to 1300 to win a game." As you get better, you get paired with better opponents. Chess will always be difficult because you should always be playing opponents within a range of your own rating.
"I get that the objective is to win, but the try hard is insane here". This is a typical cope about any game - especially online games. Chess is a game with a clear objective: try to win (or at least try not to lose). It is ridiculous to disparage people from trying to play the game.
"Chess is supposed to be a three game match". Nope. That's your personal opinion. ("That's just like - your opinion, man!")
"Just doesn't feel like a place you can make any friends or teachers in chess". There are plenty of active communities based on Chess.com (and other sites as well). Tons of people find friends and active learning groups. (There is also a Coach page where you can find a personal coach if that's something that interests you.) If you queue a random game, you can always be friendly and try to start up a friendly conversation, but your opponent is not obligated to do the same.
I get, so tired of having to play at a ridiculous level for 1200 to 1300 to win a game. I get that the objective is to win, but the try hard is insane here, even after the game is over and they win they won't chat and often don't offer a rematch. Chess is supposed to be a three game match. Just doesn't feel like a place you can make any friends or teachers in chess, because everyone wants to be magnus...