Same answer, but thank you for asking..... Lets not keep going down that line. Im not interested in anyone who lives far enough away from me that I couldnt ever really have a relationship. Im also not interested in a submissive natured man of any kind. Kind yes, submissive no thank you.
What I would like, it to play chess and chat with someone in my area who is a reasonable adult.
Hello, fellow Koala man!
Didn't you have a massive moan about koalas the other day?
Before this goes any further there is something you need to know. Chess players are horrible at hot dog eating contests.
You monster!! 
Corrijean, she is on FetLife (link is in her profile), which isn't exactly a dating site per se, but it does mean she's not exactly lost either.
Also, for users of FetLife, note there is a Chess SIG on on FetLife. It's not crazily active, but I know I get notifications to my phone from it sometimes. So as well as looking for kinksters on a chess site, you can also look for chess players on a kink site.
I guess it could be described as a social network for a diverse variety of kinksters / BDSM "community" in general.
You should try a dating web site.
Are you trying to tell me that chess.com isn't a dating site?
Well geez, what have I been doing all this time?
You should try a dating web site.
Are you trying to tell me that chess.com isn't a dating site?
Well geez, what have I been doing all this time?
Personally, I haven't met a single person through traditional dating sites that plays chess.
Personally, I haven't met a single person through traditional dating sites that plays chess.
Have you tried? I should think that posting in their chat forums enquiring after chess players would yield such rather more readily than waiting for it to occur there by chance.
(I do not take my own advice and have always been content to let people come to me and let things happen organically if I want them, but your mileage may vary in that regard)
I just want to be able to say I was in this thread before it gets locked.
I've had two dates today... One of them I was more preocupied by wanting to log in and make a move. That may have been more of a bad sign about the date than about me. The last guy I got to play a game with me purposfully made retarded moves just to end the game. Ps... Thats a dushy thing to do if you want a girl to sleep with you.
No, you got it wrong, andy wants you to lick his stilettos