Well, there is no way of actually stopping someone to trade pieces, you can play closed games, but they tend to depend on precise calculations.
This is one example when I will always trade pieces, when I have no better idea.
For trap guy, most if not every trap, starts with allowing you to win a piece or a pawn. Every time you think you will win free pawn or more, think again. You know, there are not million traps in openings. You can check most of them on youtube, or on wikipedia, not to learn them all, but just to recognize them, so you would not fall into them. Aggressive players depends on pieces, less of them on board, less he can do with his attack.
I'm playing in a small tournament at my local college. I know most of the stronger players (we are all beginner to intermediate) but haven't played them in more than a handful of games
The two guys to beat have very distinct styles that I am wondering if anyone can offer advice on.
So to start, my style is usually to develop fast and open the center. I like tactics but again am not a super strong player and would say that most of my games are won or lost depending on who blunders first. I haven't developed the skill to really force a lot of moves out of my opponent, or truly control the board.
First, the weaker of the two: He trades pieces as fast as possible. I've been working on developing solidly, but this guy just blasts out and trades every piece he can. I haven't ever seen him play a game that didn't quickly reach an end game of rook vs rook. How can I slow this down? I would assume he is better in those situations than me so should I try and close the positions? Again that would take me out of my element as well. Any tips?
Second, the stronger player. He seems to have a vast array of opening traps and typically brings his queen out early to implement them. Very aggressive, tactical, confident. I haven't seen him lose a game yet but did see him get in trouble once, and psychologically it looked like he was going to snap!
So if anyone can offer advice as to how to approach these players/games then I would really appreciate the help!