Granted, I wasn't actually playing a game at the time. But I could have been. I demand satisfaction.
Wah

I don't understand why I can not connect to live server but the page says one of my friends is playing in live

When chess.com goes off line what happens to the live games that are being played at that moment? Do both players get a loss or only the one who's clock is running when it happens? Do the records show no game between the two ever existed at all? What happens?!?
The game still exists in the Nexus.
The Nexus is a nonlinear temporal continuum in which reality appears to reshape itself in fulfillment of a person's innermost wishes, accessed by way of an energy ribbon.
If you REALLY want to resume the game, this is the only way.
Live chess is/was/has been down. Clearly an alien conspiracy to steal my points.