What to do when you think someone is cheating?

You are a wise man woman. Congrats on 30+ years of marriage, that is more difficult and rewarding than becoming a good chess player.

                  From cheating to 30 yrs of marriage. Erik is gonna be Soooo proud when he see's this.

QueenMary , I did challenge you, to give you a feeling how it is to play a 1300+ rated player. I was at 1340 in January and is at 1625 now

@ Mateovich: as you can see, i'm a WOMAN, haha! I'm called "QueenyMary" and my second name is Mary. But thanks for the support anyway!

O.k. Thanks DjonniDerevnja, i will accept this challenge of you! But i'm pretty sure i will loose againg....but it will not be agains a cheater! Hahaha!

You're a damn good player, when u learned in januar and now having 1300+ rating!!!

                 Will this cheating EVER stop??   A man using a woman's name to pretend that she's a woman using a man's name??   I gotta go lie down.

I did compete a year when I was  a teenager. So I had a lot chess in my blood before my comeback, which  actually was  in november. Thats why I can eat ratingpoints in that speed. 

Thirty years married! Props to you, ma'am, and to your husband. Hope you enjoy thirty years more. :)

Glady give your opponent a 'thanks for the game' trophy. That way, you will be acting like a true (christian) gentleman.

I always cries in a corner of the room if I lost someone who's cheating........No not really......

If you're so unsure, get any basic engine (lots of them are free to download), and run the game through it. That's all. Chances are they won't be using a super engine going at the deepest levels in a timed event anyway.

You start with 1200.