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where can i play stronger players

also the few good players there have a huge ego and ignore everyone else and play with themselves (they are like 1700 elo and they spam londons and exchange frenches)

i want practice with stronger ones online and i wont be able to play OTB for a long time
i play @gunnersroadto1000 alot where we are typically on equal skill level

i want to play some stronger players and see how well i can do. but often times they confuse it for coaching and make me pay no matter what. so i want to know if any of you know where i can play stronger players without having to pay or anything?
if you say chess.com. where on chess.com can i play these people? and what if they all say no?
I could play an unrated game or two for learning. The best way of finding stronger players (in my opinion) is to become chess.com friends with many people (higher than you for experience and lower than you to return that same favor to others), but if you don't have so many connections yet, then entering live arena tournaments is good too. In those, you might get paired with people well above and well below your rating. This gives you good practice for people at all levels.
In the meantime though, we could play an unrated game or two if you like

Sometimes I'm able to find 2000+rated unrated rapid challenges from the Open Challenges board. Some people like to play unrated games against lower rated players; @chesscoachtaipei, @Schism90, and @ChessBum21 come to mind.
i want to play some stronger players and see how well i can do. but often times they confuse it for coaching and make me pay no matter what. so i want to know if any of you know where i can play stronger players without having to pay or anything?
if you say chess.com. where on chess.com can i play these people? and what if they all say no?