which time control would be best?

The thing is that I don't like blitz or bullet, I prefer to have more time to think about my moves. I don't like rapid or standard because there is the possibility that my opponent will play dishonestly. As far as correspondence is concerned, I don't like to wait hours, or even days for my opponent to make a move.

So, which time control would be best?

None, you basically can't play online. In that case play otb

Btw, as far as cheating goes, simply do not play against relatively new accounts. That will mean that your opponent has played many games thus cheating would have been detected

If you don't like risking to get cheaty members, try and add some friends that log in by the time you do.

But really, just like mentioned @eaguiraud, it is better for you to avoid online chess.

You seem to avoid all time controls.. 

Try 30 minutes time control here.

Which ever you win with.