"Claiming that I "ignored" the interesting part of the question and that I simply said "good methods are good" without offering reasoning, is being dishonest."
I wouldn't say dishonest, although I guess it's easier for me to say since I am aware of my own intentions. But I noticed a lot of claims about good teaching methods, without really saying much about what they actually are, which I felt was the more important thing. Perhaps I just misread. That's always possible. But my post brought up the concern it intended to -- even if it turned out my criticism was wrong, you clarifying things would, well, clear things up :) It's not unlike the scientific method :)
A little ironic that you claim that my words are not productive, as if it's productive to justify one's argument by saying "I'm using reasoning, observation, and experience," while offering me no ways to know what those consist of. Well, yes, you offered me some books, but I could have already done that with google.
I don't have any weird ulterior motive here. I responded to your argument because I wasn't sufficiently convinced. I gave an alternative explanation for why people are confused about this question. That is why I didn't want to simply assume you were right. It seems like a pretty natural flow of a discussion to me.
I won't tell you who to argue with, although I suggest that a more rational approach on your end is to simply not argue about the issues you don't care about or deem pointless, while arguing about the ones that you think are important, rather than being concerned with who you are arguing with. I don't care if you think the things I'm arguing about right now are pointless -- I would only want you to argue about them if you felt like it.
I do think you make good points which is why I like to talk about them -- it's strange to me that you would take this personally. In reality I feel like I learned a lot from seeing your views, and am happy that we had this discussion. Believe it or not, I think your contributions are quite excellent, and I enjoy reading them and discussing them. I don't have to agree with everything (or technically anything) you say to think so.
Pretty much my philosophy is all about attack the arguer, not the person, if you know what I mean. Ideally it should be possible for two people to completely, utterly disagree on something and still have a ton of respect for each other, and I try rather hard to live up to this ideal.