You are only supposed to use abort occasionally. Aborts are annoying to opponents. Before they put in a limit ten years or so ago, you would see half a dozen games started and aborted before one continued.
Now, you can still abort occasionally. Just not every other game.
It works well.
When I cancel some games before they start, the other side is always considered the winner, and my points decrease, but when the other side cancels, the game is simply canceled, and I don't win. There's a double standard here, it's unfair. I will delete my account and never play on this fraudulent site again.