I agree it's tiresome. Worked fine for me, though when I visited your games (my email received them within 2-3 seconds).
Maybe your spam filter is blocking email from chess.com's pgn game sender? (have a peek at your Trash / Spam folder) If you suspect that is the problem, I suggest you should add the email address for chess.com to your email's "address book".
sftac

I have made several attempts to download a pgn file of my Chess.com Live games, and I'm always told that they will be emailed to me, but non have arrived. Why can't they simply be downloaded, as the prompt suggests? I can't even review prior live games, that would allow me to manually recreate the game, by playing both sides moves in a Chessbase. Does anyone know what I need to do to get my games downloaded to my personal database?