This site thinks I can beat someone with 3x more points? No. I can't even abort the game. I lose points!
Also, I tried playing with some of those members. Some are cheaters for sure. No one can make a move in 1 second then respond so fast and again and again...
Also, the mean messages. I kept getting them, reported the guy and had to resign and lost the points for being bullied. Nothing happened
Bullying to. Reported them for sending cruel texts, nothing.
What's the point of live chess anymore?
Hmm. You have been a member for only a week now. It takes a while to get used to the way things run around here.
It looks like you mainly play rapid games with slower time controls. Your rapid rating is currently close to 300. Are you saying that you have been matched with 900 rated players? ("3x more points") You can set the range for players you want to face in your settings. https://support.chess.com/article/1962-how-do-i-choose-what-rating-my-opponents-are
It would be very unusual to have to face someone rated 600 points above you unless you were in a tournament or if you choose one of the less popular time controls. (90% of all the games played on Chess.com are in 3 time controls-- 3 0; 5 0 and 10 0-- Sometimes there aren't a lot of players looking for a game in some of the other time controls. If that happens, they can match you with whoever comes along.) A good way to avoid that is to choose one of the most popular time controls like 10 0. That is the most popular time control on the site.
You say that no one can move fast and type at the same time. A lot of people can do that. It is not a valid cheating detection method.
The option to abort is supposed to be used only rarely. It is not supposed to help you pick opponents. If you use it too often, you lose the ability to use it and the only option left is to resign.
You can simply turn off game chat (in settings) if you find that people say mean things. I haven't had it on for years because I just can't chat and think about moves at the same time. You are frustrated that you can't see that anything has happened to the people you reported for saying mean things. They are often given temporary mutes and warned to act in accord with site rules. You would not be aware of such actions. Saying "mean" things isn't usually enough to get an account closed. If it bothers you a lot, I encourage you to turn off the game chat option and focus on making good moves. https://support.chess.com/article/626-how-can-i-play-without-chat-messages
Meanwhile, let's focus on the positive. You have won more rapid games than you have lost.
This site thinks I can beat someone with 3x more points? No. I can't even abort the game. I lose points!
Also, I tried playing with some of those members. Some are cheaters for sure. No one can make a move in 1 second then respond so fast and again and again...
Also, the mean messages. I kept getting them, reported the guy and had to resign and lost the points for being bullied. Nothing happened
Bullying to. Reported them for sending cruel texts, nothing.
What's the point of live chess anymore?