Lock this thread ? Like you always do.

Why does nobody reply to my numerous questions as to why you cannot choose who or who not play.
As a paying member ( membership about to expire, and although I like the club, I find admin useless ) I look at an opponent's Notes, BEFORE the game starts, and if I do not like the comments made, I decline to play them, only to be greeted with a patronising window appearing threatening to have my account restricted ( have actually had points removed from my ratings, for doing this )
Is that not the reason for the notes ?
Further messages say 'Lets make this a fun place to be' 
If  you think I'm wrong or you disagree why don't you just say so ?, 

Ignore the pop-ups. They put them there to scare people, but nothing happens to your account.

However, after some *manual* aborts, you automatically lose the right to resign. If you wait for the auto-abort, it's fine.

Why should someone who refuses to play with a cheat etc, be penalised for doing so.

The answer. Paying members should be given the the option to choose whom they play, instead of suffering the bad behaviour of these people.

Lets make this a fun place to be.