A.QUESTION.TO.ALL.OF.YOU
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4 days ago
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#147
#1, that's something you need to figure out yourself. But don't let "it's just a phase" and "just looking for attention" be the reason you decide that isn't your identity. Chances are, if this is something you feel that deeply, this is something worth really thinking about. One important thing to consider first, is whether genderfluid is exactly what you identify as. My best advice for you would be to go for it. Try it out, see if it feels right, or if after a week or two, you decide no, that isn't who you are. Worst thing that could happen is a slightly awkward conversation when you realize that's not you. And if those close to you really care, they won't mind whatever gender you are. They'll just be happy you're comfortable with who you are. And yes, coming out will be scary. Depending on how your family and friend group is, it might take longer or quicker to come out entirely. My gender-fluid sibling came out to their friends and certain siblings, but decided to wait until they could provide for themselves until they came out to our parents. It's really just who you feel comfortable with telling at the moment. Good luck figuring out your identity ^v^.
4 days ago
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#148
Witch31415 wrote:
#1, that's something you need to figure out yourself. But don't let "it's just a phase" and "just looking for attention" be the reason you decide that isn't your identity. Chances are, if this is something you feel that deeply, this is something worth really thinking about. One important thing to consider first, is whether genderfluid is exactly what you identify as. You had a comment about wanting to be a girl. Do you feel like sometimes you're one gender and other times you're another (genderfluid) or do you feel like your sex doesn't match with the gender you feel you are (trans)? My best advice for you would be to go for it. Try it out, see if it feels right, or if after a week or two, you decide no, that isn't who you are. Worst thing that could happen is a slightly awkward conversation when you realize that's not you. And if those close to you really care, they won't mind whatever gender you are. They'll just be happy you're comfortable with who you are. And yes, coming out will be scary. Depending on how your family and friend group is, it might take longer or quicker to come out entirely. My gender-fluid sibling came out to their friends and certain siblings, but decided to wait until they could provide for themselves until they came out to our parents. It's really just who you feel comfortable with telling at the moment. Good luck figuring out your identity ^v^.
I believe I was the one with the comment about wanting to be a girl. I can't find Corruption stating anything about that
What the meaning isn't bad lol