Actually help me/give advice, in real life

Wow. I’m in high school. Lots of high school kids get fast food jobs... so I can pay for college and get that better job you talk about. High school is an important part of your life for relationships. To learn how they work and get better at them. I don’t think I need to focus on other things entirely.

@Kaon

Thanks for your post

No I don’t rely on my parents a lot. As a matter of fact, my parents and I don’t have really a great relationship. I don’t plan on living with them too much longer after I turn 18 in 7 months.

I mean I like her and willing to risk something to know her better. If she denies me though, I would understand. The only thing I din’t want is for me to let her down, which is what I am afraid of.

So are you just saying that if I can deal with the possibility of hurt, then I should go for it? Text her?

Of course but your career should be first and foremost priority, then everything else is secondary!!!

Go ahead and text hi this is (your name), and say I don't know maybe want to play a game together??? Also check ur messages I sent u some useful info!!!

Also good job on being independent and self-managing!!!

😆 No xhive she isn’t a chess player tho

Check post 69 @kaon if you come back

If you are independent, a sovereign if you will, then you have no worries! You can date and do whatever you will and if you fall in love great and if not oh well no biggies. The tragedy would be that you two fall in love and then outside forces, your masters, parents, separate you. My recommendation to you is to stop giving thought to your parents approval of this, it’s your birthright as a human.

I am quite independent and planning to leave my parents shortly after I can. Nothing against them, I just want to be independent. I am worried about them though. That’s what I’m saying. If we do fall in love, and an outside force (my parents) stop us from being together. Thus me hurting her which is the last thing I want. But I think I will text her. I think it’s the right thing to do. I just need to get enough courage to do it tomorrow 😁

Cheers! Don’t let your parents stop you. If they try, then you just stop them stopping you, alright! Be your own master.

So you had all the kids before you met your current spouse?

You are technically not legally allowed to be on chess.com as you are under 13.

SO THE QUESTION IS: Do I

1. Text her. And if so what do I text her: Yes, send a text saying you missed it when she said goodbye, and You had hoped that the two of you would continue as good friends. Then, accept whatever comes.

True, you can be if you have consent. I forgot about that.  I highly doubt a lot of parents would like what their kids are doing on the forums though...

Chess.com could potentially get in legal trouble though

I don't think chess.com would get in trouble because it is probably in the Terms of Service.

Meh. I don't really feel like researching this for forummers right now   

for me .. i think u hv to text her ... u hv to text this is not achoice .... wt to text about is the truth .. tell her every thing why u n her stoped talking and tell her why u left without saying any thing . just say wt inside u but with polite .... i think she left cuz of u n her cuz its hard to her to be in front of u and u n her not talking good .... so she left .... and i am sure she is waiting u to text her ..... this my advice i hope u like it ..... good luck

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