You can’t say you’re a bad owner when you’ve had many successful clubs. I know many club owners that spend all their time on clubs. It’s not your fault that you’ve been busy with life. Like I’m a super admin in a club with only 40 people and it’s a handful. You’re being too critical to yourself. You should be happy that you have a successful club with your friends, not scared what type of club owner you are. You’re comparing yourself to Scemer… heck he has years. of experience vs. you with maybe months. That’s insane your comparing yourself to him…
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nah ur amazin dw about those idiots
No no no. U r the best :>>
They r mean >:-(
Luan wrote:
They r mean >:-(
yes AGREED
No, it's my fault. I shouldn't have tried to manage a club like that in the first place, I'm not a good leader.
Senna probably just wanted a large club. I mean, it's understandable. And like she said to me, I'm selfish and a baby. I'm just irritating people.
Jul 24, 2024
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Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
If u were that bad leader ur club wouldnt gain 66 membere in a day. Unlike them who lost members 🗿🍷
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a club.
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Senna probably just wanted a large club. I mean, it's understandable. And like she said to me, I'm selfish and a baby. I'm just irritating people.
Nobody calls my bb selfish >: 0 me angry 😤
Jul 24, 2024
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IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a club.
You are just having negative thoughts. just take a break and come back. you know where to go when you need a friend to talk to
Luan wrote:
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Senna probably just wanted a large club. I mean, it's understandable. And like she said to me, I'm selfish and a baby. I'm just irritating people.
Nobody calls my bb selfish >: 0 me angry 😤
Don't be. I just don't deserve it.
Lilyana wrote:
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a club.
You are just having negative thoughts. just take a break and come back. you know where to go when you need a friend to talk to
I love you, Lily. But this happens so often and I say negative stuff about myself that stresses out my club members.
Jul 24, 2024
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#17
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a club.
You are just having negative thoughts. just take a break and come back. you know where to go when you need a friend to talk to
I love you, Lily. But this happens so often and I say negative stuff about myself that stresses out my club members.
I love you too. and I told you I will be here for you. We all care for you and we want to see you happy, we don't like seeing you like this, and I get that it can be hard sometimes but everything will be ok one day, just keep doing what I told you and work for it
Jul 24, 2024
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IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a clubhttps://www.chess.com/play/tournament/4940869
Lilyana wrote:
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
IfYouCouldSeeTheSun wrote:
Lilyana wrote:
Ella. A club on chess.com is there for your own creativity you can do whatever you want with it and if the members like it they will join. you are not a bad owner, its not always meant to make a serious club or a social hangout, sometimes you can always do what you want and the owner doesn't have to be the best owner qualified to grow a club as a professional. you just get to design it the way you want. You shouldn't be sorry about anything. you grew that club it got taken away from you from unknown reasons I would of reacted the same way. I am sorry that happened to you, but don't bring yourself down because of this, just keep doing what you like, In club you built. You are the rightful owner of A little knight music and Romantics of chess. don't give them away.
But here's the thing. I'm just mentally unstable. My moods change so much and half the time I'm just super depressed and crying a lot like rn. Im not good at running a club.
You are just having negative thoughts. just take a break and come back. you know where to go when you need a friend to talk to
I love you, Lily. But this happens so often and I say negative stuff about myself that stresses out my club members.
I love you too. and I told you I will be here for you. We all care for you and we want to see you happy, we don't like seeing you like this, and I get that it can be hard sometimes but everything will be ok one day, just keep doing what I told you and work for it
I will, and I love you more. But it's just like every time something good happens, theres a bad follow up the next day and i just cry and cry, it makes my club members sad and im really annoying especially when I get that way.
I'd like to offer my apologies to the members of Velvet Vortex for being a bad owner to you all back when it was called Romantics of Chess. I left the notes inactive for five days, which clearly shows that I'm unqualified to own the club. I'm not good at keeping a conversation going, and pretty mediocre at inviting. I'm sorry for being a bad owner and I hope @Senna_0-0 will be the amazing owner you never had. I'd also like to apologize for the way I treated Senna after they took my club. I take full responsibility for the following screenshot.
This is a chain letter. Send this to 10 people you know in the club Velvet Vortex and you'll have good luck for the rest of your life and the access to Romantics of Chess! Velvet Vortex, previously known as Romantics of Chess, was stolen from the rightful club owner, @IfYouCouldSeeTheSun. Now, post a forum/note that says in Velvet Vortex: IM LEAVING THIS CLUB IT HAS A CLUB STEALER AS OWNER IM MESSAGING EVERYONE I KNOW TO QUIT THIS CLUB #rebel
I recognize how hurtful this was to your club's growth and I'm incredibly sorry for it. I hope you find it in your heart to forgive me.