Are crushes real?

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Avatar of Temporary_Closed-backsoon

Uhhhh asking for a friend?... Anyways is all this nonsense true do people actually get crushes on random people all the time for unexplainable reasons? Is this actually normal? And if not/if yes, then why is society so obsessed with this in the first place?

(Btw ..I'm not a kid like you may be assuming. I'm a teenager. But no one can give me a good answer lol) . I just thought this would be a fascinating discussion.

Don't get graphic or gross or go against TOS please, this is more of a theoretical discussion. I'm just asking about the idea of getting crushes themselves. not anything else.

Avatar of shadowhb123
I have the same exact question, I never really got the point of crushes
Avatar of Tim8x20
A crush is someone that you find attractive
Avatar of Tim8x20
That could be anyone
Avatar of Tim8x20
It’s a bit different than being in love
Avatar of Temporary_Closed-backsoon

So wait, you just think someone is attractive, and you call it having a crush? That's it?

Avatar of Temporary_Closed-backsoon

ok cool thx

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Madam Marfona and LouisLunchbox have intenses crushes on.one another especially during a hectic session of RP.Ooooh la la

Vive la France. 🇲🇫

Avatar of Dramioneisgreat

They are real feelings, simple as that

Avatar of BasixWhiteBoy
Personally I think that a crush is someone you spend a good amount of time with anyway that you think is attractive and you like their personality. Like someone completely randomly is just liking their looks, something I wouldn’t call a crush
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So are crushes on people online real?

Avatar of Sliver-WoIf
Probably not
Avatar of BasixWhiteBoy
Um… I wouldn’t think so but it’s weird how many people have crushes without seeing the person or meeting them at all
Avatar of Sliver-WoIf
I’m catfishing a guy and he thinks I’m his gf
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I see. What if someone has seen what you look like?

Avatar of Sliver-WoIf
Haven’t shared my face on the internet #imstayingastranger
Avatar of BasixWhiteBoy
Then I still wouldn’t consider it a crush I would just say that you find him/her attractive and possibly want to meet him/her.
Avatar of Dramioneisgreat

Of course it's all hypothetical

Avatar of Jalex13
Infatuation is experienced based on what you feel from seeing/interacting or whatever with someone else. It’s not based on reality or logic, just emotions.
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Kinda real