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That movie was it coming to a America? The movie with the group sexual chocolate. I love that name for a band. Fabulous!
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Okay I'm here! Lovers and haters. I'm not against a bit of S & M. What's the safe word what is it?!
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Okay thanks.
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Yeah baby.
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This. Is my current thread!
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Okay, thanks Alex.  I was in the dark on that cis thang...

I apologize , Tom ...forgive me?

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You're forgiven and all are welcome. Write here as much as you like. That's the idea. It's supposed to be an outlet and where people can find company.

A few have took that opportunity but it's open to all. I read everything wrote here so no one needs be lonely.
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I think psychopath sums me up better than narcissist. I think you'd agree Lee I want to know people very deeply. That's not a self interest it's an intense interest in others.
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Nice start to the page.

2Q there was a message to you about saying bisexuals are greedy you might be interested in on the previous page.
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Tom! Don't label yourself as a psychopath, non-violent or not!
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I'm not so sure babe. I'm sure fixated on beauty. I yearn for it.
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I think psychopath sums me up better than narcissist. I think you'd agree Lee I want to know people very deeply. That's not a self interest it's an intense interest in others.

But in a website?

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Yes.
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I'd say it is not much what you can get here. And even if so, you can't be sure it is the truth.

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Because actually contrary to what people say there are people here that will talk to you about things very personal to them.

Deeply person to them. And you have a window to that person's soul.

And I absolutely love that. People are incredibly beautiful and to know them is an honour.
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As for certainty. I accept in principle your argument but I believe that there are people honest enough you can know them.

Pulp I genuinely trust you. Words show who a person is and that's the same offline or on. Eventually you become to know that person.
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I agree. You can have an idea of how I am. But what about who I am?

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I'll give you an example. You might not recall but once I was getting a hard time from someone or other and you made an innocuous comment to me and I entirely overreacted.

You patiently explained to me I had misunderstood and I accepted I had.

Your actions demonstrated to me you are a gentleman. Offline some people would have observed my behave and lashed out in response. You took a step back though and were kind.

People do show who they are here. Rev is right that if you talk for long enough who you are naturally appears. It's inevitable.
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Does it matter though pulp? What job you have those sorts of things. I don't think so so much. It's about how you see the world and how you interact with it.
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I loved someone here. A lot of what I thought was true wasn't but that didn't matter. What mattered was who she was and the entire time I knew her all she was was beautiful.
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